Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person
What it is
A School of Life video arguing that everyone marries someone who is somewhat wrong for them, and that this is unavoidable. It is a four-minute version of an essay by Alain de Botton.
Why Hacker News recommends it
HN points to it as the short cliff's-notes version of the essay and as a charming introduction to The School of Life.
- 2 people recommended it
- 2 different months
- 0 strong recommendations
- first 2016, last 2025
What HN commenters said
“The author founded The School of Life - which I think is wonderful.”
Short video version of the essay.
sw00, 2016-05 · Recommendation · in “Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person”
“If you want the cliff's notes, his School of Life channel has a shorter version [1].”
Four-minute short version of the essay.
Nzen, 2025-04 · Recommendation · in “You Wouldn't Download a Hacker News”
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Topics: the school of life, marriage, philosophy, love, alain de botton
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